Here's a good one! After no response for weeks the Ex. calls and announces she shall be attending my 8yr olds first communion. Oh goody, and by the way would'nt it be lovely if we all sat together. Ya know,"family like"! After all it is church! I actually think there was an audiable pop as a vein somewhere behind my left eye burst, following this suggestion. There is a back story to this reaction. At my sons communion mistress cloven hoof showed up against a restraining order (For the kids. thats another story) with boyfriend in tow (keep in mind we're only seperated six weeks at the time) plopped down in the pew behind my parents and me (did I mention dad is ordained clergy) and announced to all that this was her kids step daddy to be.....well someday soon. The result was spectacular. With out going into to much detail I will say that it involved a ruined pair of boys shoes, one damaged hym book, Two NYS Troopers, one sobbing grandmother, and the only time in my life I've heard a Ordained Deacon of the Catholic Church, and My Father (A two for one deal) utter the "F" word, and in church no less. Like I said, it was SPECTACULAR! Just the thought of re-visiting this situation and even a remote chance of a chapter #2 makes my eye twitch. I'm not sure if this is really a discussion topic, but man it felt great to purge that. I've been sucking on that lemon all afternoon. I truly hope for Mandy all goes better than last time.
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