What ever happen to sanctity of marriage. What happen to holding to the belief and the vows. Is it people/soceity do not believe in it anymore. first sign of problems they go out and seek other opportunities. I believe in marriage I believe that there is no perfect marriage, I believe that it takes work, I believe love is not easy. Those people who cheat do they lack the capicity to stay in love, those who were cheated on do we lack the capicity to keep love. It all takes work to be in love, it takes understanding, it takes commitment and devotion to ride out the roguh times. I guess a perfect marriage is if you stay married. I worry for my kids when they come time to get married and as a parent I will talk to my kids about their marriage I will be involved in thier lives enough to help them. I didn't get help from either side. When the sepration thing came up no one in the family stepped in and said ok you guys were married 13 years 2 kids and a home is what you want worth saving. Divorce comes up every goes to their sides and turns the back on the marriage. It is a shame.
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