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Sadness abounds!

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I am sick of the sadness......and with the sadness comes the depression.....I HATE depression. I had it when I cam back from Kuwait, but I knew I would be okay, because I had my wife and kids there. NOW I am going through depression and sadness BECAUSE of her and she cant be there for me. I miss her terribly. BUT!...I have resolved myself to not playing anymore games with her. If I want to call her, I am going to call her. I love her very much but I will not succumb to the chase. I am just going to do as I feel. If I feel like talking to her or my children, I will call. If I want to bitch about how she screwed our relationship up, I will. If I just want to let her rot.....well, I will.
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Do what you need to do to feel better.
deleted_user
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well, you should let her go. its not go for you man. I know how you feel and its hard as hell letting go. But you have to. Keep your head up you'll get through it.
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I can understand the sadness. I am sad about my divorce.....and let down. I look at life in a positive sort of way...but this put a big speed bump in my plans....plans for my family. I am with you.....
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I am sorry you are feeling so sad. I can relate, totally. I also will not play games and I do call when i feel like it but I have to put a limit to that otherwise I would call several times a night (not healthy and slightly obsessive???)
Stay strong. You have come to the right place.
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LOL Obsessive has become my middle name, DAMNIT! I do NOTHING but think about the fact that she screwed me and took my kids away. I get mad, sad, enraged, and it feels as though my heart could burst through my chest. BUT, I do keep my cool with her or my children on the phone....somehow!
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GO OUT! Have a bud light!Things will get better!
FrmDeb2U
FrmDeb2U
Good luck with everything dear. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It will get easier... at some point. big hug
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Go out and do something for yourself to take your mind off of things. It will get better, stay strong, lot's of people here cheering you on.
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Its hard I know. When my hubby and I first seperated, I called and texted him constantly, even tho he didnt want to talk to me every day. I hope that things start to look brighter for you!
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