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My x asked me to drop by his house so he could get my opinion on some financial matters... it seems weird, but it is almost as if he has more respect for me and my brain, now that we are separated.
He had been in all day, going over paperwork and old mail etc. I just couldn't help but think how pathetic he looked. This guy who declared to the world that he is happy being alone, doesn't need or want anybody, yet after one day of being alone he is reaching out for some human contact.
They say that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference... and that is what I felt last night while sitting across from him, listening to him go on and on about his financial woes... I'm just so glad I could walk away from the situation, and not be bogged down in his troubles... I remember looking at him and wondering what I ever saw in him... he was like a sad lonely little boy, who had no friends, because they are all busy with their own lives. He has driven them all away by trying to be grand and important, chasing the impossible dream.
Is anyone else's x sad and pathetic now that the dust has settled?
He had been in all day, going over paperwork and old mail etc. I just couldn't help but think how pathetic he looked. This guy who declared to the world that he is happy being alone, doesn't need or want anybody, yet after one day of being alone he is reaching out for some human contact.
They say that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference... and that is what I felt last night while sitting across from him, listening to him go on and on about his financial woes... I'm just so glad I could walk away from the situation, and not be bogged down in his troubles... I remember looking at him and wondering what I ever saw in him... he was like a sad lonely little boy, who had no friends, because they are all busy with their own lives. He has driven them all away by trying to be grand and important, chasing the impossible dream.
Is anyone else's x sad and pathetic now that the dust has settled?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
She seems fine...
I am a good person
I make lots of people laugh on DS
I have the best bannanna dance around
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Maybe my stbx is the pathetic one for seemingly being unaffected by the whole thing...
I don't think you guys are doing that, if anything, you are being real... you are not in denial!!!!
Hugs to all!!!!
My husbands' financial irresponsibility was a major factor in ruining our marriage. Why learn how to survive when you can run home to mummy and daddy when you decide to quit your job? Mummy and daddy are glad to take you in and ruin your marriage by enabling you, i.e., saving you from the consequences of your actions.
I'm a pushover, but learning to say no.
He wanted me to house sit... Not gonna happen... wanted me to fix tax error... Nope, not my job anymore, I was fired remember??? He tried to replace me.
Thanks for the reality check!!!