My husband of 10 years had an affair that lasted about a year. He told me in March. We have been working on getting things put back together. He insisted on still being friends with the woman. I tried to be okay with it, but had a feeling he wasn't being truthful with me about when they talked or if they met up. I finally sent her an email saying that if she did not stay out of our lives, I would leave. She agreed, but my husband got very upset. After he calmed down, he admitted that they had been meeting for lunch and he was giving her money. Needless to say, I am moving out Friday. He still wants to make it work with me. I'm having trouble coming up with rules or goals for the separation. Right now, I just want to get away from his lies. We also have a 13 month old daugther who will be splitting her time between us. If you had a similar situation, what did you do?
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