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Rollarcoaster again!!!! HELP!

deleted_user
deleted_user
I am now buying the ticket again! I am on the ride again! My stbx keeps talking to me about me moving out of our home. A part of me just wants to leave....and go on with my life like I never married...I wish I never married him.....I am so mad! I am sad! I am having anxiety attacks all over again! I am sick with a horrible cold too! I am not thinking well!
I have contacted a lawyer..they don't call me back.....I call and call.....ALL I want is someone to tell me my rights with moving out....I don't want to abandon the home....I don't want him to keep OUR HOME........I don't want to show up one day and the locks are changed, and having a cop tell me I can't be in my home anymore!
Has ANYONE DEALT WITH THIS>>>>>>>>>>>
deleted_user
deleted_user
If HE wants the divorce why doesn't HE leave!? Is your name on the title? If it's not it is still the marital home and if he wants someone to move out, show him the door. Sounds like a real charmer - sorry you have to go this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Been a bad day all around,, I sucks!
deleted_user
deleted_user
sorry your day is bad, I understand.
I have not dealt with this, so I have no advice but to hang in there!
deleted_user
deleted_user
on top of everything else, you're sick...I'm so sorry. As much as you want to move on, stay in the house until you get something signed or talk to a lawyer. If one isn't calling you back, call another one. My stbx would love for me to move out, and I too want to. It's so hard being here knowing there is OW everytime I look at him.
Good luck! Thoughts are with you, HUGS!
deleted_user
deleted_user
just a sugjestion, why dont you live with mom and dad for a while and let things calm down a bit. get your head back together....
chowgirl
chowgirl
I'm sorry you're having such a hard time! If you're in a community property state, it doesn't much matter who's living in the house. Unfortunately, if you're not in a community property state, you have to go with the old addage "posession is 9/10ths of the law".
deleted_user
deleted_user
I suggest another attorney, one who will work FOR you not against you, as it sounds this one is doing.
I'm not sure of what is what in your situation, and the laws of your state. I hope you feel better soon and that all works out for the best.
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