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Ok, here's my question:

when you're separated, and don't know what is going to happen, how many have heard or used the term 'right now' in discussions about the relationship. for example:

Right now I feel numb towards you

Right now I don't know what I want

Right now I am happy without you

Right now....

Has anyone ever heard the term Right Now used over and over again in conversation?

For those who either reconciled or divorced, what words replaced 'Right Now'?

When do you know 'Right Now' is over???
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I don't know but your post made me think of something. There was a song called "Right Now" by Van Halen.

I used to have lines from the song in a frame that I would switch out every day or so.

"Right now is your tomorrow."

"Right now is your magic moment."

"Right now the most expensive thing is regret."

"Right now is everything."
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That's right. I totally need to watch that video. I think it contains the answer to all this.
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Awesome. There are some good people on here. Thanks.

Right now ;) I watched the video.

What two lines scared the crap out of me:

Right now she is moving on with her life.

Right now forces are aligning against you.

Right now never ends.

Guess I want right now to be over, one way or another.

I don't have the switch, she does.
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Usualy means you don't know what you want want to keep a options open...just my opinion

KIM
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It sounds like you already know it is over. It is scary, you don't want to believe it is happening. Take it one day at a time. Build a support system now.
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Right now I am sorry you are going through this.
Hang in there!
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In response to the lines that scared you. I must admit the first one scares me but it is the truth. These apply to me as well.

"Right you need to get on with your life."

"Right now you have the power to defeat your fears."
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I have used it too.
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I would say that I am in this Right Now stage. Confused and not sure what my nexts steps should be.
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