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My husband is really not into sharing anything and feels that everything is his. I'm trying hard to accept that. I have things that were in the house that I do not want to live without. Pictures. .memories. He said he's destroyed them. How do you cope with all of this.
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I'm sorry he is so hurtful that he would destroy the sentimental stuff. It's obvious he is trying to get back at you--so he's hurting to. You might be able to find the negatives or go to the studio and get reprints. But I imagine it mostly has to be let go in the mourning process. I'm so sorry. That's a rotten thoughtless thing to do. (((Hugs)))
Che2
Che2
He may think that everything belongs to him. If you are going through a Divorce..the judge will have a different view. If you have an attny..tell him/her that he has destroyed things that belong to you.

His behavior will not serve him well in the long run.
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Perhaps the things you cherish are still around and he is lying as a means of hurting you. Pathetic? You bet! Just speaks to his character.

If he has destroyed your prescious belongings, they are gone and there is nothing you can do can change that now. So why continue to hurt over something out of your control? Allow yourself the time to get angry and then let it go.

Wishing you all the best in your journey.
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if i'm not mistaken it's against the law to destroy your property. and how do you know he destroyed them, by just his word? i think i would call the police and go over there and see if there is anything else that belongs to you, so that you can get it out of there. worth a try.
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