Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I wrote in my DS journal today about my personal remewal.I feel it is so importat to the transition.I was interested in others response to the subject.What if any renewal you have experienced in this process and what brought it on.Mine was moving out this week.Thanks!_Savery1
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Mine was I went to church last Wednesday night and the lesson was on forgiveness. Basically what it said is that you will not be able to heal until you can forgive. I talked with ex and asked for forgiveness for my part in our marriage failing and I told him that I had just about 98% forgiven him. He told me that I did not have to forgive him and he would understand if I didn't. But I told him that it was for me that I was forgiving him and that I had to move on. I have not talked to him since Thursday night and normally I would be wondering what he is doing. Today I realized that I have not thought about calling him or me since Thursday and I think this will be renewal for me.
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I will be moving out this week also so definitely a mile stone to note. I am still numb but it will hit me soon and hopefully it will not be an awkward time/place.
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Forgiveness is imparative.But it is also probably the hardest part.I am a work in progress on that one..but in time it will happen.
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On forgiveness, my therapist had me write a letter to my stbx thanking him for the things he did in my life that made difference. It was a very difficult lesson to do, but I followed through and the last one on the list was, "Thank you for leaving me before I lost faith in kindness and mankind."
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My renewal experience was ownership of my part in the breakup of my marriage. I talked with my daughter last night and she said somethings to me that I have been denial about. Her honesty really helped me.
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Acknowledging and admitting my fault in the breakup. It's the hardest thing. I can forgive him but I don't know if I can forgive myself for the blame
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Yes fault and blame.The dynamic duo.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
