People repeat behaviors..have no fear she'll be walking in your high heels in no time!

My ex is getting married in March. They got engaged 3 weeks after her divorce was final. Our's had been final for months. Thier whole relationship has been based on cheating and lies. They think they love each other..and they don't even know each other... they spent alomost 1 year apart when she lost custody of her son and she decided that if she lied about thier relationship..she would have a better chance of getting him back.

What a way to start a relationship..and a life..together. They both know the horrible things that each other has done but believe that they will never see this behavior directed towards them.

I see no happily ever after for them. They have left behind 2 broken families and 3 devastaed little boys.

I look at thier upcoming wedding like this..March 15 is when thier punishment begins. They deserve each other.

Wow... I dont know. I am sorry it happened like that.

Che2 that is the one thing I forgot to mention. He asked her to marry him 5 days after ours was final. HA

I totally agree with you though. their relationship is totally based on lies and cheating. And there will never be any trust. how can they possibly trust each other when the lied to their own families. they do deserve each other. Good rediance.

My x hasn't remarried yet but he and the OW started trying for a baby about 2 months after our separation...she got pregnant in July and our divorce was final in August. I know that he will be marrying her very soon..maybe after the baby's born. The way I look at it is that they deserve one another. Both are drug addicts and my x is an alcoholic to boot. Who knows when karma will come around for x but I know that it will happen.

I agree with courier...these types of relationships dont last too long...in most cases...in either case...be glad that you are rid of him and you dont have to worry about doing his laundry, let her do it and soon enough all will realize what transpired as soon as SHE hangs HIS laundry out to dry...LOL...

So true lizzygirl. The sad thing is this wasn't his first time cheating on me. I was stupid enough to take him back. But it was the last time he will cheat on me. He is all hers now.

I always say-he will be moving on to his next victim soon-2 LTR's in the time we have split-divorce is not final yet-

No happiness can be built on the rubble of children. Two selfish cheaters living in a hell of their own making.

I only wish some day, my ex comes to a forum like this for help with herself ... to read others and how it effects them ... the cheating ... she feels it doesnt effect anyone but me ... her words ..

when two cheaters get together, all you have said enough about it. No solid base, nothing to really grow on but the talks of cheating.

once a cheater always a cheater?

I am sorry to hear about this, but the statistics are that 98% of these relationships will not last.

Karma, it will happen. Look after yourself.

If you ever get the answer please let me know. My wife cheated on me and asked for a divorce 1 month ago and now she is moving back to my home state to be with her new man. I can see soon down the road I will her married again. Funny when her ex cheated on her she was in pain and hurt so bad yet she has done the same to me. And this new guy? He will just be on the long list of all the men she has hurt. Hugggs Hon. You look like a very sweet lady. We both will find someone who will really love us and stay faithfull.

I am so sorry about your pain and I know it so well. My divorce was final Sept. 21, my ex married his new wife Sept. 22 in Hawaii. Hang in there!!!

Regardless of how he made you feel - you are not disposable. People do recycle. If he married a cheater(and he is as cheater as well) they will most likelt cheat on each other. Sounds like you are much better off with this out of your life.

My first husband left 4/10/97 (I was 4 months pregnant) Divorce was final 7/22/97. Son was born 8/5/97. He remarried 8/16/97. Talk about moving on quickly? Their relationship started based on lies - she didn't know I was pregnant. They have both cheated on each other and she admitted to me (and my 14 year old) she would divorce him if she could provide for the kids they had together. As long as she has a sugar daddy -she intends to stay.

All I can say is I am thankful I was only married to him for 5 years and not 15 or 25 etc.