My stbx is always making the comment that he wants to remain friends. He calls frequently to "check on me". He called me day before yesterday at night to check in. Then yesterday he called me 2x to check in. While there is a part of me that wants to welcome these phone calls, there is a part of me that thinks its going to be difficult to move on if he continues to do this. And I don't know if he calls because he really cares (right!) or if he's doing this because of guilt, which I think is probably the case. So for the sake of our son, there is part of me that thinks we should try and be friends. But is this possible/healthy?
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