Gosh, girl. I'm so sorry. I don't have an answer. Just wanted to offer support.

Thank-you both for your support and encouraging words. I can't figure out what I feel right now. I guess except shock or not wanting to believe.

Yes they might be a annulment, something similiar is happening to me, since he lied to you, so you just got to get the info, in my case my I've been married the same time as you, but my husband told he did drugs before wewere married, in my head I'm thinking oh well everybody does it in school right? So what I smoke pot a couple of times too... anyway after 3 months of marriage and 8 weeks of pregnancy, I noticed that something was wrong I confronted him and Oh Surprised when he confess that he's been a meth addict since he's 15 he had never stop and that he can't stop.We've had been thruogh hell,since then, I got pregnant right away so the baby makes it a lot harder to leave him I helped him to get into rehab, and I truly believe taht we shouldn't be together Don't stay and get hurt you can leave now get the info you need and start all over again, at least (I hope) you don't have little ones to get between you two...

Don't have the answer for you but you can call the family court in your area and someone can advise you. Good luck and stay strong.

Depending on what the state requirements are you may be able to file for an annulment based on fraud.

You can file for annulment on grounds of fraud in Virginia. However, there are two circumstances which may apply to your case which may result in the annulment not being granted. To quote the law directly:

1) "...if it appears that the party applying for such annulment has cohabited with the other after knowledge of the facts giving rise to what otherwise would have been grounds for annulment."

2)"...in no event shall any such decree be entered if the parties had been married for a period of two years prior to the institution of such suit for annulment."

Hey Randy thanks. I need any good advice I can get on this matter. Fortunately I left him this past friday after he told me about this situation with him. And we've only been married, well not quite a yr. and a half. What website did you get this info?

There are several, but a good one for Virginia is: http://www.divorceinfo.com/vafaqsmiscellaneous.htm

Hi,
I'm new here. I am embarrassed to and feel foolish for what my wife did. My wife concealed the fact she was a lesbian for three years and married me to get her Green card. I understand how you feel.
I have been going through the same thing here in CA since 08/2006. I filed an annulment and am in the proccess of it. I know here in CA. that the fraud must go to the heart of the marriage, such as concealing the fact of his/her sexuality, and he/she NEVER wanted to have children with you. You need to have an attorney that is a specialist in this. I would suggest hiring a Private Investigator, to gather additional evidence. Any and all evidence to support your case is helpful. Also keep a journal of when he told you and any fights. This will also help you keep your sanity. Proving the fraud is going to hard, that is why you need the evidence, pictures, phone records, letters, e-mails, bank account records the works anything you can think of. What my attorney told me is it will be a "He said, She said" situation when you get into court. Your attorney works for you remember that. Write your questions down on paper when you want to talk to your lawyer, this way they can all be answered at once, you will feel better too.
You will have a lot mixed emotions, from shocked to anger to disbelief, to having anxiety, you will run the whole gambit of emotions. I joined the gym to relieve stress and not think about it. Don't listen to Country Music because it will make you cry, believe me. I truly am sorry you are going through this.