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He won't admit he's lonely, etc. But sure acts like it.
Whether or not I believe any of the other crap that he's saying is another story.
Now he thinks he can make up for all that lost time by trying to raise me. Well, I'm done being "raised". Hell, my kids are almost done being raised.
But yes, now that he's facing his mortality, I think he has a lot of regrets.
Also, my step-dad has 3 children I've never met. I think he has a lot of regrets too, although that subject is entirely off limits in my family.
Damn, I hate secrets.
you'll just have to pick up slack where there isn't the help from the othe party and the kids will pick up on who they can rely on, and who'll be the party buddy. in the end, you come out ahead. don't worry about the other person and what they lost. they simply don't care.
Its the same for me. I didn't leave my first marriage by choice, but I look back and wish I could have had them in my life on a daily basis. Its not fair that I had to miss so much of their growing up. Things I was never able to experience with them. Things I will never get to experience with them. Time lost that can never be made up.
Right now I am very angry at him and have no pity for him. He wants out and he is going to have to live with what he missed.