Very tuned into red flags. I know we must all take responsibility for our actions. However, it seems to be a theme with certain unhealthy parties NOT to admit to theirs. I have dealt with too many men who were serious addicts, mainly alcohol & drugs. I know my issues & why I ended up with them. However, when I try to point out where their problems lie, I get the usual responses: "Stop picking on me", "I don't like comparisons", "I'm not that person." Still looking for a better path away from these energy vampires. I'm just guessing their responses show that they don't want to deal with their own problems and it is easier to just throw up some sort of excuse or defense mechanism. Has anyone else run into this?
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