My husband and i split up in august after i caught him having an affair. the next 3 months i tried to get over him and move on with my life. the problems in our marriage seemed insurmountable. eventually some of the anger faded and i realized that there is still a lot of good between us and that we still love each other. we started dating and trying to work things out. im slowly moving back home. my dilemma is twofold-1 he cheated before this time and in nov we found out his previous fling had a baby in june and he is now a dad. im my husbands child stepmother. i feel like the only person in the world to be going thru this. my other dilemma is that im trying to forgive as the bible says we must but it is hard to forgive when you cant forget. repeated infidelity is a big hurdle and the blow to my self esteem has been huge. i used to loo at him and think he was perfect and i now know that he is not. im ok with flaws but im having a hard time getting past the betrayal of his committing adultery. i know a lot of people cheat but i thought what we have was so special that it would never happen to us
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