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My wife and I separated within our home- Virginia one year with out a separation agreement in writing (her house) 2 months ago. The kids (my steps) were so much against it that they let their mother know on a daily basis. She wanted it I did not; and I felt I had done everything I could to keep the marriage and family together. SEE MY PROFILE!
The kids supported me and demanded their rights to be around me. Though their mother and her attorney felt it better strategically, "to limit all contact with the kids for step dad scott"
After two months my wife is now asking me for reconciliation. Two days I've been thinking about this. Should I get it in writing? Should I say yes?
The kids supported me and demanded their rights to be around me. Though their mother and her attorney felt it better strategically, "to limit all contact with the kids for step dad scott"
After two months my wife is now asking me for reconciliation. Two days I've been thinking about this. Should I get it in writing? Should I say yes?
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If she wants to reconcile for the kids or because she feels the divorce would be difficult I would not reconcile.
If her reasons are anything but the two of you loving each other and giving the relationship another try then it will not work out and your relationship will be in the same place this time next year.
I agree only you can make the final decision, just make sure it is for the right reasons for both of you.
I wish my ex would give me just one chance at reconciliation and I envy you the choice at all.
Im not certain as to what you would get in writing? That she wants to reconcile? I know that reconciliation always sounds like a nice thing, that the couple has patched htings up and put all the bad stuff behind them and is now ready to move on-but ask yourself this:
If you were seperated, but still in the same house, she would have had ample opportunites to initiate or discuss a reconciliation. Now, what changed in your relationship that is making her see things differently?
Her disposition may improve greatly now that she is in AA; indeed she could become a changed person totally for the better.
Of course, this is all assuming you still want her.