That's great that you feel good about it. It's a good indication that the right decision has been made. I hope it continues to go smoothly for you.

Those are all things that my my ex did everynight no matter what and it destroyed our marriage. Maybe you should look and see if is just the nagging or the lack of a relationship that has caused the seperation. My ex says the same thing that he enjoys being his own person now. The only problem with that is we have a son and not only was he neglecting a relationship with me, he was neglecting a relationship with his son. I am glad you feel good, because seperation hurts. But it takes 2 to tango.

Well, I do have a son. He is almost 5. I still spend alot of time with him. I take him to Preschool 3 days a week. I also have him on Tuesdays and Thursdays all day long. we spend alot of time together, bowling, Putt PUtting, Playing at the local Parks. swimming, etc. He is a great kid. No matter what else happens, He and I will always spend and have great times together.

Wow, thats great! I'm not sure that says great things about the relationship or feelings you had with her though. But its a good sign that things will work out for the best for you in the end. There will be some speed bumps ahead though for sure, but for now, enjoy.

it's nice to feel peaceful about things. glad for you. enjoy. have been achieving some of those things myself.

I am separated, have finally made my decision to end it, and am feeling good and good about it.

Of course, I had a lot of practice all those times he walked out on me. But now, I have given it up and it feels good.

Man, I wish it was like that for me and that it continues to be like this for you.

When me and the ex first split, it appeared to be Ok as it was just going to be for a "few days". Then as more days went bye, I started to miss the little things that I didnt realize I would miss.

So I hope it continues to go smoothly for you. but yeh, as some have said, it says a lot about the relationship you two had.