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Reasons why I HATE what he has done to me!!

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Thought it might make me feel better to focus on all the bad stuff about my husband and what he has done rather than spend my days aching for the good times!
I hate that he fell out of love with me for no real reason other than his feelings changed
I hate that he walked away from our marriage and young baby without even trying to put things right when we used to be so perfect
I hate that I have lost my beautiful home and am now renting
I hate that unless I win the lottery I can never afford my own mortgage
I hate that because of him I will have to return to work full time in the future instead of part-time as planned
I hate that I won't be giving Oliver a brother or sister with the same dad (if at all)
I hate how much he has hurt both mine and his family
I hate how he has made me question my own abilities as a wife
I hate that he has made me a single parent
I hate it that I can never spend every single weekend with Oliver, because of what he's done and will have access to him
I hate that I will have to give Oliver to him over holidays/christmases
I hate the fact that Oliver won't be growing up with a mummy and daddy in the same house
I hate it that although he is lonely and unhappy that is preferable to coming back and trying to put things right.
There you go - I feel better now!
I hate that he fell out of love with me for no real reason other than his feelings changed
I hate that he walked away from our marriage and young baby without even trying to put things right when we used to be so perfect
I hate that I have lost my beautiful home and am now renting
I hate that unless I win the lottery I can never afford my own mortgage
I hate that because of him I will have to return to work full time in the future instead of part-time as planned
I hate that I won't be giving Oliver a brother or sister with the same dad (if at all)
I hate how much he has hurt both mine and his family
I hate how he has made me question my own abilities as a wife
I hate that he has made me a single parent
I hate it that I can never spend every single weekend with Oliver, because of what he's done and will have access to him
I hate that I will have to give Oliver to him over holidays/christmases
I hate the fact that Oliver won't be growing up with a mummy and daddy in the same house
I hate it that although he is lonely and unhappy that is preferable to coming back and trying to put things right.
There you go - I feel better now!
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I hate how he will not let me back into his heart except for a few moments here and there when he has his guard down.
I hate that he told me "I'm setting you free, Go find another man!"
I hate that he acts like I'm his Mom
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I hate that he is good in bed BECAUSE I trained HIM!
I hate that he will work overtime and then be OK with NOT getting paid for it!
I hate he never plans for the future!
I hate he told our son that "I paid for college by working, so you do it!"
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guess I'm ready to leave this abusive man.....I'm still affraid of the future because of him and his BS.
thanks for letting me vent.
Please remember, we have only two things to spend - time and money. And we can make more money. So that would make time about the most precious resource we have.
So what do you get in return for your investment in hate. While it may pay a few short-term dividends, I promise you that there are better investments of time. Investments that pay short and long-term rewards far in excess of anything provided by hate.
While the pain is real, and I don't make any pretense about the misery our ex-spouses have caused, I propose that hate is of very little value to us personally and is of pretty much no value to anyone else.
The sooner you can let go of the hate, the more time you will have to reward yourself for the strength you found to get out of bed yet one more time. The sooner you stop hating, the sooner you will begin loving again.
I do not mean to preach, I just know that nothing good ever happened because one person hated another. And you are my friends and I would like to see good things happen for you all.
Harley.
But if our hearts are filled with hate, then there's no room for anything else.
But what I can't figure out is what's another word for synonym?