Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I've received this happy view of divorce for nearly 8 months. I do love the people who have sent it to me, however, I feel like it's time to rewrite it for accuracy and to fit with our divorce world situation. Please feel free to send me MY version anytime. The other...not so much...
Mean people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what that person could do to you. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to focus on their own needs.
They have come to cause a difficulty, to provide you with anguish and grief, to ail you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a god send but they came from the other place.
They are there for as long as they want to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Most of the time, its the walking
Sometimes they act up and take a stand (on your back).
What we must realize is that their need has been met, their desire fulfilled, their work is done.
There was no prayer involved in their decision and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, to give and to be a doormat.
They bring you an experience of grief or make you cry. They may teach you something you have never done. Divorce or cheating are good examples of this.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of pain.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships cant be had with these people. There are few lifetime lessons, and there is little in them to build into a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson (Thank you sir may I have another!), love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life (except of course, the cheating or divorcing or general meanness).
It is said that love is blind and that is wh love so often gets surprised by these weasels. Divorcees are more clairvoyant.
Thank them for taking leave of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Mean people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what that person could do to you. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to focus on their own needs.
They have come to cause a difficulty, to provide you with anguish and grief, to ail you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a god send but they came from the other place.
They are there for as long as they want to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Most of the time, its the walking
Sometimes they act up and take a stand (on your back).
What we must realize is that their need has been met, their desire fulfilled, their work is done.
There was no prayer involved in their decision and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, to give and to be a doormat.
They bring you an experience of grief or make you cry. They may teach you something you have never done. Divorce or cheating are good examples of this.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of pain.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships cant be had with these people. There are few lifetime lessons, and there is little in them to build into a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson (Thank you sir may I have another!), love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life (except of course, the cheating or divorcing or general meanness).
It is said that love is blind and that is wh love so often gets surprised by these weasels. Divorcees are more clairvoyant.
Thank them for taking leave of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Many of these folks do not understand anything else, mind you. It is like a slice of their mind is missing.
Sad, but accurate.
Have a great weekend.