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" I Love You To The Moon And Back."

LisaACOA
LisaACOA
Today, I had to go back to my old house and do some things. I came across something that hit a nerve. My ex-fiancee and I had this saying. It was taken from a children's book. "I Love You To The Moon And Back." It really made me wonder how someone who said, he loved me to the moon and back could beat the living shit out of me?

Your friend, Lisa abusehurts
FrmDeb2U
FrmDeb2U
Oh Sweetie... I asked my stbx that question so many times and never got a reasonable answer.

He still says he loves me and that he will never hurt me again. I just know that he promised me that before. He also told me that he just couldn't control his temper ... that was before I left him.

I am sitting here crying just thinking about it. I am going back to not long after we were married ... when he hit me for the first time. I felt like he ripped my heart out of my chest.

I don't believe men like this know how to love. They have a totally different idea of what love is and I will never understand it.

I'm so sorry... please know that you're not alone. I wonder if the pain will ever end... I thought I was doing better, but lately I don't think I can get over all of these feelings.

Sorry..... I don't mean to go on.... my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love and hugs, Debbie
deleted_user
deleted_user
You know how when people die they can come back around people they know and control butterflies and other insects - well I have decided that I would swarm my exhusband with bees, wasp, yellowjackets, red ants, fleas and mosquitos that have West Nile - You know just to show him some LOVE! LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
sorry about finding that stuff. I am still finding his things mixed in with mine even though I have moved. weird, tough kind of a trigger to loss sometimes for me.
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