Ok so earlier this week my BF and I had a fight. We've been fighting a lot lately. We haven't seen eachother in a month. We only talk on the phone occasionally, we e-mail each other a few days a week. I've told him that I can't continue on the way things have been. He says that the reason we don't talk or spend time together is because of all of the fighting that we've been doing, so he doesn't call or ask me out. Yet because he doesn't call or ask me out causes me pain, which in turn causes the fighting. I've explained to him that this is a vicious cycle that needs to be broken if we are going to try to make our relationship work, yet in my opinion he doesn't make much effort to make this work. He says he doesn't want to break up, that he does want to spend time w/ me, but he's to affraid to because it will just turn into a fight. This is tearing me appart. I hate that we aren't spending time together, or even talking. I don't know what to do anymore, it is tearing up my self esteem (what little I had). I need support and advice here.
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