My H had an (emotional)A w/ a coworker, 4 months ago. Many hours on hours of talking and texting for two months. They work third shift together. He says it's over and there is no more contact. Him quitting (as he's told me) his job is out of the question. I'm leaning on him changing shifts will not happen either. Say, I can not accept this; I'm trying, right NOW, I'm OK; but, let's say it starts eating at my again and I can't. The temptation is too real, too close, too easy in my book. Has anyone decided on divorce, gone through with it and, now regret it? What is the pain going to be like? Divorce, right now, is NOT what I want, but, is an option I have to deal with this. I am starting couseling soon to get my thoughts together. I'm just trying to get facts, thoughts from both sides. I speak, often, with all on infidelity posts. Thought I'd get opinions here. Has anybody regretted choosing D over accepting the lifestyle they had? Like I said, just wondering... do that a lot these days. thanks
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