I am so confused. My stbx and I agreed when we seperated to always put the kids first. He said he would live out of his car before me or the kids went without. Its been almost 6 months now, and things are completely different. He opened his own account, and I found out he has a TON more money than he's giving us. I can't keep up with monthly bills and things have been shut off. I can't afford to buy the kids clothes, and I only eat once a day many weeks. He is spending his money on lots of shit. I can't understand for the life of me how he could be so selfish! This is not the man I married. Did I screw him up that bad through our marriage? Why is he doing this? I know you dont' know him, but any insight would mean so much. Thank you!
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