How do you share in your children's special moments?....I just think that now that we are (mostly) passed all the hurt and anger....how can we move past and share in the "big days"? I ask this because my youngest started kindergarten yesterday...it was a huge day for her....weeks of anticipation...up at the crack of dawn to do her hair...so excited....we got to the school and she did so great!...such a big girl....I was sooooo proud. My instant reaction was to share it with him...so I texted him (honestly thinking nothing of it)....a simple text "just want to share that it went great this morning...our baby is all grown up...call her later - it was a big deal"...was that out of line?...he believes I'm crossing some boundaries preventing him from being truly free of me in his new relationship?! I just need some suggestions on how to make it clear that my intentions are about our children now...I've said it enough and thats all I contact him about...but, am I just trying to force him to give a shit?...sorry about the rant...just frustrated...
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