Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am seeking help with regards to 'how to out smart a psychopath'. I am a victim of a psychopath. A person who tortured, beat me and blamed me for him doing these things to me. I say that I am still am a victim and not a survivor as yet. Even though I left him 6 yrs ago, he still keeps track of me. After he through me into walls, bashed me around my head, strung me up by the throat until I passed out and tortured me for hours at a time-- he would have great pleasure from raping me. I have not been able to move on. I would like to speak to others who have been subjected to these sort of things.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Get the law involved. If he threatens, press charges. Seek help from abuse victims groups, you are emotionally & traumatically bonded to him. Find out how to free yourself through books, therapy and then you will find that light at the end of the tunnel.
I have not suffered physical abuse, but I have suffered emotional abuse. I also know that he spies on me. Or he did anyway. I have had NC since our divorce hearing on 10/18. He's shacked up with OW so focus is off me.
We don't diagnose people here. We're not doctors. Anyone in an abusive situation of any variety should *LEAVE* if you feel you are in danger, please dont check the wilipedia to diagnose your offender. Call friends, family, crisis lines, get your finances together. Have a plan to get out.
Call 911. Anything. Its not a good idea imho to buy a book on Amazon and post here if you are living with someone you feel threatened by.