
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
This past summer, a number of catalysts happened that made me realize that I just can't continue...the main one was that I became involved with another man. There was no s*x, but we did make out a few times. It didn't last long - only a couple of weeks - and was not serious, but it shook me up enough to make me realize that if I was *willing* to have an affair, then I needed to GET OUT of the marriage and get on with my life.
...or do we just bump the horny guys?
I suppose it is different if you do the soul-searching first. In my Xs case he did not, he did the action first and exposed me to STDs. If I had caught what the OW gave him (or worse), he could have been writing a death sentence for both of our daughter's parents. Making her an orphan.