Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I received 2 voice mails from him yesterday afternoon and he sounded different than he has in 2 months. I didn't hear the harsh bitter tone. It wasn't so much what he said as he was just talking about picking up some of his Christmas decorations. I had emailed him the day before that I had found some of his in the attic. But it was HOW he said it. He even said, I hope your doing well. No biggie to some, but I am telling you it was different. Prayer works, thanks to everyone for those and please keep them up. I was reading in Psalms and 1 Cor last night and it tells us do not doubt and God will cover us with his wings. I kept reading to have hope. I am placing my faith, NOT in my husband, but in God, he can perform a miracle in my husbands' mind and heart and restore our marriage. I am keeping my chin up and I have hope that I haven't had in months. For now, I am going to let go and let God. I am going to be still and quiet and let God work. I tried for 6 yrs to work it out, I can't do it. I haven't returned his call or emails, I am just keeping still.
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Wow good luck keep on praying it get's better and better. Yes you let it go and if God send him back to you it was meant to be Amen!!!!
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god's will be done. He wont answer us placing orders. but what ever happens you can lean on him and us for support
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Put your faith in God that he will give you strength to make it through this regardless of the outcome with your husband.
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Thanks for the encouraging words. You are are GREAT here! What a blessing! Today I too have tried to be an encouragement. I know all to well how the down days feels! :) Much love and prayers to you all!!
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perhaps this is where i'm failing, i have not been reading the bible, have missed church, have not gone to any alanon meeting, and i feel so depressed. why do i come out strong and slip back to doing nothing? i'm so happy for you. because i know God works miracles.
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YES He does!! But I have to keep the faith. That isn't always easy. Like today, I ventured to one of the dating sites he is on, it said, "chatting now". I got physically sick to my stomach! I had to go back and read my bible. God said, I have to believe it. Our mind is our worst enemy. Hang in there!!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
