
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am hoping that someone can help me. I have never been a religious person. Once the bomb was dropped on me I didn't know what to do or where to turn so I started praying. I don't even know if I was doing it right.
I asked the lord for his help, strength and guidance. I feel like the lord did answer me by putting a good job with wonderful hours in my path - a job that allows me to be here for my kids when they get home from school, etc...
Last night I went to bed and I prayed. I told the lord that I was putting my marriage in his hands because I am so confused and I know longer know what to do. At times I want to fight - even though I don't know what to do to fight for it, and other times I just want to give the STBX what he wants and give him the divorce. Anyway, I asked God to give me some type of sign - something to let me know what to do. I went to sleep and had HORRIBLE dreamns about me and STBX.
Would this be the sign that I was asking for? Does God send signs in you dreams? I don't know if this was a sign from God or if this was just the normal bad dreams that one could have after having a really hard day. Yesterday, I cried almost all day - I was more upset than usual. When the STBX called to speak with the boys I asked him when his plane was to arrive since I am picking him up and he was very rude and said "I will speak with you later about this!"
I asked the lord for his help, strength and guidance. I feel like the lord did answer me by putting a good job with wonderful hours in my path - a job that allows me to be here for my kids when they get home from school, etc...
Last night I went to bed and I prayed. I told the lord that I was putting my marriage in his hands because I am so confused and I know longer know what to do. At times I want to fight - even though I don't know what to do to fight for it, and other times I just want to give the STBX what he wants and give him the divorce. Anyway, I asked God to give me some type of sign - something to let me know what to do. I went to sleep and had HORRIBLE dreamns about me and STBX.
Would this be the sign that I was asking for? Does God send signs in you dreams? I don't know if this was a sign from God or if this was just the normal bad dreams that one could have after having a really hard day. Yesterday, I cried almost all day - I was more upset than usual. When the STBX called to speak with the boys I asked him when his plane was to arrive since I am picking him up and he was very rude and said "I will speak with you later about this!"
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I'm sorry that your ex was rude to you. I don't know how they are able to through away years of love either. Maybe they fell out of love long ago, and we just never noticed it. Who knows?
I'm so very sorry you are hurting. Pray to God and ask Him to help heal your heart and to give you guidance and strength. Lord knows we need that! lol.
I'll be praying for you too.
take care care of your self and it will work out. keep praying god will listen