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deleted_user
deleted_user
I go to write in my journal and click the box that says just friends. But when it is posted it just shows the pad lock and the whole post is out there for everybody to read. I too worry that my stbx is reading my journals etc. How do I hide my journal entries behind the lock.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You click for me only. That's how it locks it for you only and it's a red padlock on the post and says private.
deleted_user
deleted_user
se who are not in your friends list, will only see the lock sign, when they click on it - they see a note saying :you have to be a friend to read...I've just checked it and that's what I've got. so do not worry. the reason that you can see the entry yourself is because you are the authour of it.
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
well, of course, YOU have to see it!

that's how it will look for 'Friends', otherwise just the padlock line is shown.

If you look at this journal http://dailystrength.org/index.php?option=com_mamblog&Itemid=47&task=show&action=user&id=901 you'll see just the padlocks.

If you look at this one http://dailystrength.org/index.php?option=com_mamblog&Itemid=47&task=show&action=user&id=146883 you should see the padlock and journal entry
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
you get this:

This journal entry is viewable only by zippid's friends.
If you would like to see it, request a friendship.

Your 11/02 & 10/06 journals are seen by 'Everybody', the others are 'Just Friends'
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks I'm a little paranoid now a days. Discovering I'm married to a master manipulator. He and his girlfriend are going over the top to do stuff to hurt me.
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