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Ok - you know when you have a brain fart? Well I feel like tonight I'm having Post Farts. I have started to reply to several threads and half way through end up feeling like what I'm writing doesn't make sense or doesn't really fit or is too lengthy, etc. So I delete them!
I've been starting and deleting for the past 45 minutes!!!
Tell my I'm not the only one who does this!??
I've been starting and deleting for the past 45 minutes!!!
Tell my I'm not the only one who does this!??
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And I do the same thing Joe - I write like I think and then it sounds weird sometimes or doesn't even come close to what I wanted to get across - so I'll rewrite mine, too.
And the funny thing is it's my own journal; you'd think I wouldn't care. I've rewritten a couple of them quite a few times before finally saving it.
And I am also way wordy when trying to say something; I seem to have to explain everything around it - the back story, the details, the this and that. It's like I think if I don't include all the info it won't come across as I want it to. The 'if you knew the whole story you'd understand' thing I guess.
Another goal I should start - figuring out how to say things without it being novel! Maybe knock it down to a short story! Baby steps. ha ha =)
I have also come to a point in my life where mistakes are just that... mistakes, and you know what? EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, TYPOS, whatever, so I will not read over my comments to a thread. That way, I cannot change the wording. I would rather use my time responding to another thread.
I feel... IF I DELETE WHAT I WROTE, I HAVE WASTED MY TIME & MY TIME IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE! YOU ONLY HAVE SO MUCH TIME IN YOUR LIFE, WHY DELETE SOME OF YOUR HEART FELT FEELINGS?
Just my brain farting away...
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I constantly delete trying but I'm a "rambler". What can I say?
I think it's something I might try doing from now on see how it goes and how long my OCD's will let me be! LOL