Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Hello Everyone, after 3 recounts, a couple of hanging chads, a catfight (seriously in the middle of the night - and real cats!), and a night with little sleep and too much Baileys, here I present the results of the Wearing the Ring Poll:
TOTAL VOTES COUNTED: 93
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO DID NOT GET THIS INSTRUCTIONS: 4
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO VOTED ONE WAY BUT DESCRIPTION SAID SOMETHING ELSE: 3
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO NEVER HAD A RING BUT STILL WANTED TO VOTE: 2
TOTAL COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT POSTS: 2
NOW THE RESULTS:
A) Wore the Ring until day divorce was final
Total: 2 votes
Percentage: 2%
Both provided valid reason: to keep men away! to which others replied that the ring didn't keep the OM from their STBX!
B) Changed ring to right hand until divorce.
Total: 1 vote
Percentage: 1%
I was really surprised at this since I thought the right hand switch was very common!
C) Took it off before she/he/I finished saying "I'm leaving"
Total: 54 Votes
Percentage: 58%
Overwhelming Favorite in DS!
d) Wore it for a while and then took it off
Total: 36
Percentage: 39%
AND THE WINNER IS: C! TOOK IT OFF IMMEDIATELY!!!
Thank you all for participating!
N.
TOTAL VOTES COUNTED: 93
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO DID NOT GET THIS INSTRUCTIONS: 4
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO VOTED ONE WAY BUT DESCRIPTION SAID SOMETHING ELSE: 3
TOTAL PEOPLE WHO NEVER HAD A RING BUT STILL WANTED TO VOTE: 2
TOTAL COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT POSTS: 2
NOW THE RESULTS:
A) Wore the Ring until day divorce was final
Total: 2 votes
Percentage: 2%
Both provided valid reason: to keep men away! to which others replied that the ring didn't keep the OM from their STBX!
B) Changed ring to right hand until divorce.
Total: 1 vote
Percentage: 1%
I was really surprised at this since I thought the right hand switch was very common!
C) Took it off before she/he/I finished saying "I'm leaving"
Total: 54 Votes
Percentage: 58%
Overwhelming Favorite in DS!
d) Wore it for a while and then took it off
Total: 36
Percentage: 39%
AND THE WINNER IS: C! TOOK IT OFF IMMEDIATELY!!!
Thank you all for participating!
N.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Humnn..
Thanks for the update. You rock. ;-)
That response seem as though I'm upset but I'm not. I just realized I never mentioned my marriage. Sorry if it came across that way.
I'm going to get some today when I go out.
Sounds like a great plan.
"C" rules!