I need help. I come from a very close, tight, immigrant family who believes in marital values and marriage for life and staying with your partner even during the bad times together. When my husband & I married, my family was so happy to the point that they wanted to and did spend their life's savings on a grandest wedding for their daughter (me) & their future son-in-law to see this day. 1 year later, my husband files for a divorce. He has hurt me, and now he is hurting my family. I want to work out things, but it's really hard when your significant other doesnt' want to meet you and doesn't want to communicate with you and does not even respect you as a person. I found out today that he still has not withdrawn the divorce action, but rather proceeded to place more notorious charges of cruelty. I know those charges are not true, but my spouse has his way with words and the legal system. My mother was crying. I tried to hug her and tell her that as a family we need to be strong and first thing is first, we need to fight for what's right. My mother kept crying and saying "why did he come into our family just to destroy us all and our happiness. I love you so much and worked hard all my life just so my kids could have all the happiness we didn't get to have. I can't even bear a scratch to you. It took a lifetime to create a home." I am so hurt right now. I keep wondering why God punishes innocent people and whether someday I will get justice. I have thoughts in my mind why did he do this? Does he have someone else in mind? What am I missing?
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