I have been struggling with this issue since my husband decided to move out over 3 months ago. We have 2 children still at home, 10, and 17, and a daughter 19 that comes home from college pretty often on weekends. Also 4 other children that live away from home and come to visit regularly. Okay my dilema, he is the one that wants the divorce, I don't. But I struggle with how to act around him, how much I should let him be here when the children are visiting. He wants his own life, should I just shut him out and not let him come over when the kids are here??? I am not a mean, vindective person, but it does hurt me to be around him. Do I swallow my feelings and just smile through everything for the children?? I don't know the right way to handle this. He doesn't want to be married to me, but he does love his children. It is so confusing to me. I just am not sure what to do.
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