Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am trying to figure out what to do. This is the situation. My husband is in Sales and works on commission for all of 2007 he has only made about 15000 gross(that is after child support deductions from his 2 other children) We have not gotten along for 2 years I asked to move and paid for him to move into his own apartment. Unfortunately because he wasn't paying child supprt for my children when he left that caused me to be late with my bills my rent is the issue. Because both of our names are on the lease the mgmt company wouldn't allow me to take his name off until the late balance was paid in full. I couldn't and he couldn't so I just left it the way it was. In the meantime he is living on his own for 6 months and then he gets evicted and comes back because he name is on the lease at my apartment. Now he is being really disrespectful to me and talking bvad about me to my children he tells them he is going to find them another mother. He is still coming up short on the bills. I have gone into debt for 12k so far this year. I want to leave but the lease won't be up until 7/2008 but I feel like I can't take anymore but if I leave I will be close to 20k in debt because the mgmt company will sue. I have told them everything that he has done I have tried to get an order of protection no luck...I don't know what to do at this point..I have a great job but it seems like it doesn't matter..I want to leave the first of the year I just can't seem to find the money to do it. My children are 12 and 2 PLease some advice
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Sounds harsh but what he's doing to your children is worse. Look into it and see what you can do. At least call the police dept. and find out what you can do to get him out of there.
Remember the kids need you to be strong and calm.