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Please I need some advice...Im so depressed.

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Im new here, so I dated this guy for 3 months I know its not long but we spent all weekends together. He would come down every friday and bring me home on sunday. I dont drive because of fear but my road test is in two weeks. He new this when he started to date me. Everything was wonderful he suprised me all the time, called me all the time telling me he was thinking of me ect. I mean seriously cooked for me we just had amazing times laughs ect. Well on friday he left me a vm saying is it ok if he picks me up tomorrow meaning saturday he has alot of things on his mind he needs to sort out and get his head clear but he'll pick me up tomorrow. I called him back and asked if it was us he said partially the driving was getting to him. I asked at the end of our converstation without thinking the answer was yes but if there was someone else he said no theres noone else but there is someone on my mind. Well saturday morning i find out from him that he went to dinner with her that friday night to clarify there feelings for each other because if she would of not had the same feelings he still was meeting me to tell me things were ok. I still love him and he says its his fault he doesnt know what the frig he's doing and that he takes full repsonsiblity he says he's liked her way before me they went out on two dates 5 months ago and he had to end things because of drama with his ex then he found me. He says he has stronger feelings for her i dont get how but its driving me to be depressed. Was he wrong is he a jerk, because he is being so honest and thats great but i cant help but want to call him ect. please help me. I did everything for him with him i was so good to him he says i was the best gf even told his mother. we were so happy why did he do this.
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So what he is saying is that things would not be OK between the two of YOU if that woman returned his feelings. If so, that makes you his back-up. I would pull back from this relationship and not make yourself so available.