After 3 months of being seperated, hubby and I have been spending a lot of time together and every night for the past 10 days. We put our rings back on and he said he wants our marriage and me as his wife. Well, he just told me that he can be totally committed to me living in 2 seperate houses. That me kicking him out took his security and that he refuses to come back and live in my house. I am just sick. Not only is this setting us back tremendously in our finances but this is taking my security. If I can forgive him of all the emotional, mental abuse, neglect and harsh words, then why is he doing this? He is leaving for Pa. to go to visit his family in the morning and won't be back til Christmas night. This trip was planned when we were NOT together at all. He is on his way here to spend the night with me and I want to get this clear tonight. I want him to make me feel better before he leaves. However, I'm afraid if I bring this up it will cause a WAR and he will leave for his trip with us on BAD terms. I'm willing to do anything to get my marriage back. I know this sounds crazy, but I'd rather live with the heartache with him than to live without him. PLEASE ADVISE!!
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