I am a 26 year old trying to get divorced from my controlling husband. I am so scared I have been a homemaker for the past 6 years, and don't even want to think about how hard it is going to be to find a job and get back out into the real world. He does not know I am leaving him yet. I have to leave while he is at work because the last time he took all our belongings that were worth anything and brought them to his brothers and told me i could not have anything. I am not in love with him anymore and it is going to be hard. We have 2 young children together which is another issue. He wants 50/50 custody but I don't think he could handle it. He never gives them a bath, or medicine. Never cooked a meal or went grocery shopping...I mean come on he's 27 and addicted to video games. I have a place to go but no car no money, but I can not stay just for security purposes. I need love and a good father. I need to know do I get the car, can he screw me like he plans on doing. Do I have to give him 50/50. I am so scared I haven't slept or ate or anything. Did anyone else just leave l;ike I am doing need some support here
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