
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I feel HORRIBLE. I've wished this whole time that the X would say all the things he's said in the last couple of days. Everything he's said I've wanted to hear.
Now it doesn't matter. I can't believe him. If we got back together I'd never trust him, not fully, I'd always wonder when he's gonna leave, if he's ever gonna love me the way I love him. If he even knows what love is.
DAMNIT I was doing SOOOOOOO good, so damned good! I felt great, I WAS moving on!! I feel so lost. How could he do this to me???
HELP ME PLEASE. I feel like I'm gonna crack.
Now it doesn't matter. I can't believe him. If we got back together I'd never trust him, not fully, I'd always wonder when he's gonna leave, if he's ever gonna love me the way I love him. If he even knows what love is.
DAMNIT I was doing SOOOOOOO good, so damned good! I felt great, I WAS moving on!! I feel so lost. How could he do this to me???
HELP ME PLEASE. I feel like I'm gonna crack.
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Talk about emotional abuse!!
Hold your chin up - you don't deserve what he's dishing out.
I'll be thinking of you!
From the things he says, I can feel that he's sorry. It doesn't change anything that has happend though, ya know?
I'm just so hurt, I can't think straight.
If it helps you at all, you are not alone!
It's hard to imagine a guy who is a deadbeat dad having much hope, but have you tried counseling yet? You could go without moving back in together. If he is serious, he will pay for it and go. It will be harder for him to keep lying there if he is, and you could get a more objective look at him.
Is it more than clear that if I can't trust him then there's no going back? Am I in denial to think any different?
I wish you the best, SnA. I came to the realization that not being able to believe or trust someone was relationship poison.
(There's no going back)
I would keep walking twords the light and away from the pain. If he wants you, perhaps he will let you call the shots and get in to counciling or whatever else you feel would be appropriate