You will get over him and you will move on. I have to believe that. i am in the beginning stages of all this as well and I just keep telling myself God has a plan for me I just dont' know what it is. Same with you. Let yourself be sad. It is okay. You have lost something and you should be sad but every day will get better.

Ales, he said that he is so desperately sad & don't know what to do?

Alex, not Ales lol darned typo monster

Alex, I'm sorry... I'll give you the advice that I've gotten (and didn't like one bit). It's time to let go. Accept it. Accept the grief and know that on the other end is hope. Hugs!

Oh I am so right there with you! What is it with men, especially when you love them so much and they treat you like a dog. yet we still love them and hang on to them. I know that if I could find someone I am attracted to and genuinely like, then it would help me but until then I am in the same boat you are. I don't know what to do either!

You may not get over, but you will get through. You will be different, but there is life and love on the other side.

I hope you will not call him again. It is not good for you.

I'm so sorry. Yes, it is time to let go. Wherever he is he isn't at home and that says it all doesn't it.
It's going to get really hard, but the pain WILL ease. The nights will get less lonel yand you will smile again. It's such a hard road, but it makes you 20x as strong as you ever imagined you could be.
Don't strive to get over him, you will probably always hold that place for him. That love will fade with time. Just use this time to take care of yourself. To take long showers, jog, eat, read, and just be. It will get better.

catfisher, no he said the wordds "It's over" "No chance ever"
and I am desperately sad
I can't eben cry right now. Just my gut hurts

AAWWWWWWWWWW Alex, I am SO sorry.... I think there must be something in the air right now...... We WILL get through this... "Keep Your Head Up!~!"

Alex31 that is what happened to me only my stbx said it to my face. I know how you feel and it sucks. You will get over him...really...right now just breathe and try to stay calm. You are in shock and probably dont' know if you are coming or going. It will be okay...we are here.

You will get over him. I have been feeling the same way for a long time. Now it is getting easier and easier.

Hey Alex. I am sorry that you are in pain today. We have to let go...we really do. I just got an email back after pouring my heart out AGAIN, and got the "nothing you can do to change anything" message again. We have to move on for us, you know? I am so tired and I am sure that you are too.
It's hard.

alex, i am so sorry you are hurting right now, please know theres more to life than this sadness and im here if you need to talk, your in my prayers

It is time to start your healing process-You will get over him-and You will get through this.

Alex, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I was there a few weeks ago. For me, after a few days (the worst three days of my life) it started to get better believe it or not. I started realizing that life would go on, that I would end up a better person, that the sun still would shine in the morning. And for some reason that gave me incredible strength and I am now at the best place I have been since this all started in January. Yes, it is time to move on and you are showing that you are ready by asking him for the closure you need to do so. It is harder now, but much easier in the long run than holding on to the little hope we have left. Please read my journal for inspiration if it helps. Good luck. I, and others here, are there for you if you need it!