I think I'll be skipping this party.

Whatever she gets..she deserves. No sympathy from me.

I don't feel sorry for her at all. I really don't think about her in the least - a waste of my precious mental energy I say.

I don't feel sorry for her at all...however I do think BOTH will be getting what they deserve.

And, yes, he's no prize...but then again, neither is she...

w/o question i feel sorry for the OW. her life is a huge mess and she's not dealing with it. sucks to be her....

I must send my regrets, I will not be attending this party. She (and all like her) has caused unbelievable misery for me and my kids. I will waste no sympathy on her, that they deserve each other there is no doubt.

As difficult as it was to get to where you are in regard to the OW/OM, you should be commended as the hate you once felt only hurts you.

Forgiveness is one of the kindest things we can do for ourselves.

Congratulations.

I feel very sorry for the OW. Considering she had NO regard for me or respect even for the sanctity of my home, it took time to forgive her. I still have not forgiven him. I'm hoping that comes very soon. I hate dragging this heavy stone around with me.

This does NOT mean I pass ANY judgement on those who cannot and possibly will not EVER forgive the OW. Many of you had children hurt by OM/OW who trashed your marriage like they were ripping through the bargain bin at Walmart! The trinket of Walmart junk they "scored" must seem shiny and new to them. Maybe they will regret bringing it home in the end. Margie

my ex & the ow have broken up already...(imagine that???)

i actually do feel a bit sorry for her. she is young & stupid. more than anything tho, i feel sorry for her 2 little boys. if she does not get a grip on herself & fix what is wrong with her, those boys have no chance.

so, in that sense, i do wish her well. i do hope she finds her way. i would rather wish her well and hope that helps her children, then hate her & know her boys are suffering because their mother is not a good person.

I have no sympathy for her he is wining and dining her as we sit with only my part time income he has not paid the mtg for 2 mos doesn't call our kids only sees them every other wknd they deserve each other

No sympathy from me..for ANY of them. Im sorry to say I cannot even have sympathy for the one he got pregnant and then aborted. SHE is going to have to live with that pain for the rest of her life. Neither one of them had the slightest bit of care or concern for the marriage OR MY SON. Oh, yes, and this is while we were together. The rest of them that have crossed his path are just the kind of "person" I cant even say the word WOMAN because that is NOT what they are. He is looking for and getting just what he deserves. No sympathy here for any of them, including him. I have the BEST part of this and that is my SON who I adore and cherish every moment with!!! NOTHING else in the world matters!!

I don't spare them enough thought to feel sorry for them. My feelings were all directed to my ex. Now I have left most of that behind as well :)

I think that she will get what she deserves. I don't feel sorry for her but I feel somebody really screwed in some point of her life. She has major problems. She is sick and pathetic and I hope she gets alot of grief. I guess that I am still bitter. It is very hard to move forward.

I do not feel sorry for her. She did not care about me or my kids and even bost about it. I hope she get what she deserves along with him.

No sympathy here. I hope she takes a flying leap into a s--t pit!! She works where my husband works and is too close for comfort even though he cut it off with her.

No sympathy at all for stbxw or the om. I do sympathize for his wife, though. I do not believe that she knows about his activities, though someday I am sure she will.
There's a great line from "A Streetcar Named Desire" where Blanch says, "Deliberate cruelty will not be tolerated."
Well that's what lying and adultery are- deliberate acts of cruelty.
No sympathy whatsoever.