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Sometimes, everybody fails you. The only person to count on is yourself. The sooner I learn that, the better off I'd be.
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The only people you can really trust are the ones you don't have to and your self.
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It is so true marymarym, I have started doing alot things on my own at least I know it will get done. I know its tough and unfair but if we don't do it who will? GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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people usually do let you down - even "good" people. We, as humans are imperfect - some more IMperfect than others - and your ex sounds pretty darned IMperfect. When my ex husband walked out on me and my girls when they were 2 and 4 and i hadn't heard from him for 3 months, my counselor asked me why I kept expecting normal behavior from someone who was sick - and then I got it. Don't leave yoursef vulnerable to him - my motto where my ex was concerned - expect the worst and i will never be disappointed ;-) My heart goes out to you!
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I trust my Mom and thats it!
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jlkrjl, my motto is, I trust people to do what is right for them!
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I couldn't agree more!
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Such a sad statement. What makes it sad? Because it is true.

I agree. No wonder the human race is in such a mess.
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I am sorry :-(

Still, it is so lonely Not to trust. There are still good hearts in existence...they are just hard to find.

(((Hugs)))
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Where are they Tami? PLEASE tell me...I am feeling exactly the same way at the moment Mary!

The problem is, we can't just live with ourselves...so what is the answer? I would die without people in my life as I am sure would we all.

I want to know what the trick is to figure out who to trust and who not to trust. There must be a way....I so desperately want to know too!
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"Sometimes, everybody fails you"

'Sometimes' being the operative word.

Most of the time they surprise you with their competence and understanding.

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