Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I'm trying to get boxes out of my new apartment.
Unfortunately, a lot of them are a jumbled mess.
I found the pictures.
So I went through them.
*sigh*
what a headache I have now!
I tore up a few :)
Then I made a toss pile (why do we keep bad pictures?)
Keep for me pile
and a pile for my stbx
I almost didn't do this and then as I went through I found pictures of him as a child, his grandparents, other family.. friends..
I'm not giving him any wedding pics because when he packed up my stuff (long story, I was not given the opportunity to get all of my stuff out on my own) he threw in any picture that had me in it or my friends. He kept my gorgeous collage frame that his mother had given to me as a birthday present but took out any wedding pics.
Anyway,
Now I have to get these pictures to him.
I don't want to mail them, don't want them to be damaged.
I don't want to see him. I've only seen him once since I left.
Is is okay to give them to a mutual friend?
Unfortunately, a lot of them are a jumbled mess.
I found the pictures.
So I went through them.
*sigh*
what a headache I have now!
I tore up a few :)
Then I made a toss pile (why do we keep bad pictures?)
Keep for me pile
and a pile for my stbx
I almost didn't do this and then as I went through I found pictures of him as a child, his grandparents, other family.. friends..
I'm not giving him any wedding pics because when he packed up my stuff (long story, I was not given the opportunity to get all of my stuff out on my own) he threw in any picture that had me in it or my friends. He kept my gorgeous collage frame that his mother had given to me as a birthday present but took out any wedding pics.
Anyway,
Now I have to get these pictures to him.
I don't want to mail them, don't want them to be damaged.
I don't want to see him. I've only seen him once since I left.
Is is okay to give them to a mutual friend?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
The picture thing is rough. My grown daughter and I put all the photos with the STBX in a large manila envelope and put them on the back of the shelf. It is a man who no longer exists and is too sad to look at these now. Someday, we may send them to him, when the time is right. Just not now. Don't want to stir things up.
well,
I don't see my wedding pictures that way. We meant it at the time.
I don't have them on display nor will I. But
My family is in those pictures.
My friends. And that day was a day of love and celebration.