I took a career opportunity that separated us physically (except for most weekends) and has caused problems in the marriage. We've supposedly worked through most of them. During the issues I became jealous (which I have never been during our 12 yrs), started second guessing myself etc. However she's changed also, doesn't respond the same, doesn't call back or call when she used to, etc. Shit, if I didn't call we probably wouldn't talk for days. She doesn't seem to care. I bought a house on a lake for us that she wanted, company hired movers that pack and unpack, got lucky and sold our house in 2 days, all she's got to do is pick the new colors for the new house! We'll all be together in weeks however it doesn't seem the same and I feel like I'm walking on egg shells in the mean time, don't know what she's up to, thinking, if she's still resentful, if this whole long term issue in which she thought I didn't love her, pay attention to her enough etc. is still there and only going to come up again. Trying to be patient (wasn't born with patience) but it's causing anxiety. Any advice?
Posts You May Be Interested In
I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...