I haven't mentioned on any of my posts thus far that a great deal of the end of my marriage was due to physcial and verbal abuse on her part. Six years, 5 calls to the police and the final reason I left. After almost 5 months since our separation I'm more of a punching bag (generally in front of our son...verbal only now) than ever. I demanded we seek mediation to help the situation. She refused...so I decided to take the case to social services although I wanted the state to stay out of our lives as much as possible. What do ya' know...she called today and made an appointment with a support group outside of DSS, set the time and date herself. Perhaps this will help take the target off my face and we can find a peacful means to communicate. Any input from anyone would be greatly appreciated...I really need to discuss this matter with other folks that have suffered the same abuse...both men and the ladies as well. Cheers all....thanks in advance!
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