I have sole custody of our dog (no kids - so the dog is pretty much our kid, and we always treated her like ours). So far I haven't really been sharing her with my STBX. He babysat her maybe twice since we seperated. I've been trying to keep my distance from him and part of that is not sharing our dog with him. He left so why should I. I know he misses her and would like to see her. But I really don't want to put myself through the pain of seeing him just to be the bigger person and share our dog. Why should I? My friend says it's my way of hurting him and being vengeful. Is it? Maybe, but screw him he's the one that left right? She says it's not as black and white as that and it's not really taking anything away from me to share the dog but why does it feel like it? Why does on top of it all, why does it feel like he's taking away more? And the worst feeling of all is that I feel I'm putting myself in this moral quandry when he may not care all that much after all, much less realize how painful it is for me to do so.
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