Ok My hubby is a firefighter who has a Pension managed by the local city goverment. It is self funded. I was told by my lawyer that I have a right to it as we have been married for 13 years and he has been working at this job 13 years. My lawyer said we we need to trade my part of his pension for another asset. I can't lay claim to it later in payments (pension rule)...plus he will get wise and go out on disability and then I won't get any anyways. So here is the problem my husband's pension is our largest asset. We have 30 K in real Estate equity and my hubby has 30K in a 401K and I have 40K in my 401K. There is no asset to trade a cash value of the money. I know he won't pay payments...So am I screwed???
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