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Here's the deal. My current partner is often silent and uncommunicative. When she does speak to me about her feelings or "us", it is usually to tell me that I have hurt her in some way. And she rarely tells me this when it happens, but waits until the next day or the day after. Her behavior makes me angry. Anyone else have a similar situation with his/her partner? Anyone have some ideas on how to handle it?
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see a therapist if she is willing.
My suggestion would be to talk with this person. Let them know that you want to be able to work things out. You want them to be able to come to you when something is amiss, and that you want to work on having better communication for you both so to be more proactive in the relationship, then reactive.
It all starts with someone making the first step to talk, even if it has to come from you to set the stage.
good luck