My lawyer is happy to answer questions about money, property, etc. -- that's the "interesting" part for him, I guess. But whom do you go to when little things are happening that aren't bad enough for Contempt but are bad enough to be having a harmful effect on the kids? Like a few weeks ago my 3-year-old toddler started dancing around the house, saying, "I'm crazy! I'm crazy!" When we dropped him off, I asked STBX, point blank, where would he have heard such a thing? She admitted, "Oh, well, I'm sure it was me. I'm sure I said, 'Stop acting crazy!' or something like that. I didn't think I was saying anything bad," she said haughtily. If he's acting "crazy" in front of her, the daycare tells me that he never misbehaves all day, yet when she drops him off he gives her a hard time, and when she picks him up, the same thing -- but the whole day in between, nothing! So I'm sure he is indeed acting out, but it's only with HER. And who knows why? Who knows whatever other slightly-mildly-abusive things she's saying or doing? Also, she tends to ignore him. Her post-partum was strange in one sense: she didn't have animosity towards the newborn, but towards the toddler she just absolutely started ignoring him, getting mad at him -- she just switched like that, and he never understood why. But my lawyer is NOT INTERESTED in hearing about these things. Is ANYONE interested???? My sons are my life, and they're with an unstable woman.
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