I was just told by my stbx that he does not love me and he really did not want to get married. 10 years ago. He was in love with another women who broken his heart this past year and came running back to me and said he wanted us to be a family again. For 3 months now we have been together every day and night. now he says he does not feel the way he should about me and needs to be single again. I am sure there is somebody he is waiting to date. But how do I get over my husband of 10 years (15 years together) never really wanted to get married or never really loved me. What about our two sons. I did not just get knocked up we planned each one of them. I feel my last 15 years is such a lie and I am not sure how to handle that. He has broken me down to nothing with all this. 15 years of lies. Now he is asking that we be firends and saying who knows maybe we will fall in love. How do I be friends with someone sho has lied and hurt me?I guess he wants to keep me around in case he other relationships fail. I will be there to pick him up. I am trying not to feel love for this man. I really want to hate him because he is soo hurtful to the mother of his children.
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