Just wanted to get some opinons, had a rough time past few years, much better now, having brain surgery 4 years ago, after losing our home, then job, then wife of 30+ years, moved out and stayed with sister who took advantage of my disability income, then moved out to stay with my brother till I could get enough to get my own place, always pay my rent on time or early where I live now, I had ONE check bounce to a grocery store and now my sister- n-law thinks I should be put under a finanical advisor or she will have to do it because I can\'t control my finances, someone who will take all my income and distribute it when THEY feel I need it, I have been on my own since the split up for almost a year now, everybody makes mistakes!! I was left with some short and long term memory issues which was 4 years ago, I am much better now, I was just in court with my X a week ago and the judge awarded ME the car as she felt I needed it more than the x and she doesn\'t work and she needs a car, the judge must of had a clue? you think?? Now my sister-n-law has called my daughter who lives in another state trying to convince her I can\'t function alone without her financial advice, my daughter has always been my world to me, I am very hurt that she is being sucked into this, I would never want anything to hurt our relationship and I know she only wants the best for me, unfortunately she is not here and can\'t see with her own eyes, I am very responsible, this tears me up inside, both my brother and sister smoke pot everyday and seemed like there always stoned, I don\'t mean to say anything bad about them, but those are facts, I think I can think a little more clearly than they can, they have tried to get me to cut back every expense I have even though I make 3 times as much as them on my disability as I worked many years in Mgt. before my injury, they want me only to have dial up on my P.C. they want me to not have long distance on my phone and basic cable, every month i have money left over, what is hurting me now is paying my lawyer for the past few months regarding the divorce, my X\'s brother is paying foe her lawyer, I don\'t have that luxury, just looking for some thoughts on this, I was just really upset about this and thought I would write down my feelings, now my daughter is being brainwashed and it hurts me so much.
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